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No, it’s not perimenopause!
Your nerves are raw and you’re aware that you’re hypersensitive at the best of times…
I’m a woman and I hate shopping!
I read an article this morning about how women are programmed to love shopping, as…
Sunrise over The Quiraing, Isle of Skye
The name Quiraing comes from the Old Norse phrase Kví Rand, which means Round Fold.
A strange(r) connection
Whilst trespassing on farmland (training to walk 1000 miles solo round Iceland) I had an…
Winter wildlife on the Antarctic Peninsula
Most newborn life had already headed north for the winter so only a few of…
The symptoms of a nervous breakdown
It takes a long time to spiral all the way down to rock bottom. And…
Cookie The Slapdash Adventurer
I've always wanted to be an epic adventurer. Imagine my disappointment, then, to find out…
Mind over matter
My world fell apart when I had my breakdown but I remember seeing it as…
It’s not laziness; it’s a functional freeze response
For years I thought I was lazy, disorganised or plain useless. It turns out there…
I hate hot weather, don’t I?
Anyone who knows me knows that for over half a century I've cheered as winter’s…
You’re offended – well, so bloody what?
How fabulous it is to have grown up in a time where people could enjoy…
The idea: walking the scottish highlands
It was 5am when I sat bolt upright in bed, prodded Dave’s cheek and declared,…
Photos from the Scottish Highlands
These photographs of the south-western Highlands were taken on my way to a regular winter…
Nowhere else to live
Think about every bite, every drop and every medicine you swallow. Looking after yourself is…
Such is the stigma of mental illness
Did I really have a breakdown? Noooooo, I just decided to stop functioning for a…
Not all that glitters is gold
After a couple of hours and a couple of gins, my companion decided that I…
The lure of Glen Coe in winter
The Scottish Highlands. It’s the only place on Earth that pulls me like a magnet…
Time Does Heal
When my abusive marriage ended on a very bad note after more than 35 years,…
The Scottish Beauty Secret
People ask me what face cream I use. I tell them my beauty secret is…
No kids? What’s wrong with you?
I don't want children, which makes me a selfish, child-hating woman, who's no idea what…
Feeling fragile after a mental breakdown
Being fragile is part of being human, a moment of relative dysfunction in an otherwise…
My breakdown; my best friend
My breakdown is being a tough-talking best friend; it's not trying to hurt me in…
Beginner’s guide to different types of fasting
Fasting refers to the practice of going without food for a period of time. How…
Feeling like a nuisance around other people
One thing I've learned during the recovery from my nervous breakdown is that it all…
Facing My Fear Of Flying
The saddest part wasn't that I hadn't travelled. The saddest part was realising how much…
Starting over at 55
I looked and felt empty. I realised had a choice: allow this separation to define…
The Burger Dream
I haven't bought the van yet and I haven't served a single burger. But I…
The mesmerising beauty of Antarctic Icebergs
Nothing could have prepared us for the variety of icebergs that we were to see…
Pop-up? Pop off!
Don’t get me wrong, I know it’s marketing, I know it’s a 'keep their attention'…
Just how awkward is this going to be?
Yep, people tend to avoid talking about mental breakdowns. It’s all they can do to…
Functional Freeze Mode
Many people find themselves moving through life feeling unlike themselves. They are still completing daily…
Tristan da Cunha, the remotest inhabited island
It took me five years to find a ship bound for the remotest inhabited island…
Back in jeans by Christmas
My goal is to get back in my jeans for Christmas after I gained about…
